Coasting into the Valley – The Ebbs and Flows to a New Year

Days rarely go as planned (unless I am on vacation with a very strictly planned schedule laid out for me).  Regular days shift often.  Children get sick, snow comes, hours pass too quickly to accomplish what was on the “to do” list, a neighbor stops over, the computer you are using gives you grief and you have to solve a problem before moving forward again.  Everyone can fill in their own blanks.

There is an ebb and flow to days as there is with life.  The unpredictable nature can be a friend though depending on how you view it.  The sick child makes you pause and refocus your attention on what really matters.  The “not enough time in the day” scenario is a reminder of the blessing of time in general and that we need to make the most of it.  I also count my blessings when I realize the days fly by because I am busy, I am happy with my work days, I love what I do.  If the days dragged on, there would be an issue with my career.

The downs in a day are usually followed quickly enough by an up.  A hill eventually peaks and the hard work of getting there turns into a coast downhill where you can enjoy the ride.  When the bad comes, it reinforces the good when it comes too.  How else would we appreciate the sun if it never rained?

So in this new year, know that days will not go as planned.  Things will happen that we don’t see coming.  And while some of them may knock us down to our knees, taking us awhile to recover from the blow, call on gratitude to help get you through the tough times.  Gratitude will take you far, helping build your resilience, which is ultimately what is needed to get over the hill and coasting back down into the green, calm valley.

By BorisFromStockdale at the English language Wikipedia, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=18215841

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4 responses to this post.

  1. Posted by Melinda Corbin on January 3, 2018 at 7:10 pm

    Love this post, Erica. Wishing you and your family a resilient New Year!

    Reply

  2. Thank you! I hope you are doing well too 🙂

    Reply

  3. Posted by Mary Busch on January 3, 2018 at 10:34 pm

    So wise. So true. You have such a wonderful way of expressing what we all need to hear. Thank you Erica. Love . . . and ALL GOOD THINGS in the New Year.

    Reply

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